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Grave Blankets

Grave Blankets.
An evergreen arrangement to remember our loved ones and celebrate their memory. During this cold winter month, I placed the grave blankets as a way to honor my two son’s final resting place.
I am a mother. I am a bereaved mother. Two of my three children have died. My journey has been one of intention, infinite hope and giving purpose to my pain. I have never stopped missing my sons because I have never stopped loving them. There is not a second of any minute of any hour of any day that passes when I am not aware of my children’s absence, no matter how many years have passed.
For all family and friends of grievers, do not offer a cure or a fix it solution. Don’t tell the grievers how they should or shouldn’t be grieving. Sit beside them. Be still. Be gentle with them. Grieving mothers, fathers, spouses, children, grandparents, siblings and loved ones won’t wake up one day with everything ‘okay’ and life back to normal. There is now a new normal.
For all those who are grieving, I am witnessing and holding space for you in your deep sorrow. Most everything hurts some days, even breathing and smiling. Every cell in your body aches and longs to be with your loved one. You will not ‘get over’ your loved ones death so don’t urge yourself to do so. It’s ok to be distracted and shed many tears. Be still. Be gentle with you. Sit with your pain. Grief is as personal as your own fingerprint. It’s ok to do grief your way.
It is my honor to hold space for all who are grieving and suffering from loss. My heart, love and prayers are with each one of you as you remember and honor your loved ones.

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I am a grief counselor, certified grief educator, certified professional life coach, speaker, and writer dedicated to helping you navigate through life and loss. My greatest joy is to help others, to have the honor to listen to your story, and to offer hope. I am truly grateful and it is my privilege to be on this journey with you.